I often hear people say, "It ’s been a long time ago." But I do n’t think so. People inevitably experience failure or frustration, but these are all things that must be experienced during growth. No one can escape, no one can escape. Don't use one failure to determine a person's life. Instead, look at everyone with a long-term perspective. Did n’t the ancients all say, “The prodigal son turns his back on gold and does n’t change it.” Does n’t this sentence reverse the above statement?
In this world, there are no laws. My own idea is that failure does not mean anything. It can only prove that we have experienced those things. I believe in hard work, I believe in giving, and I believe in the value of existence in this world. For my student days, I was already a veteran character, but for life, I was just a fledgling epidemic. Although I had the spirit of being born a cow, I was not afraid of tigers, but I think such people are always just one The reckless husband in life, even with a little cleverness, that can't change anything. For me at this stage, what I want is not the opportunity to develop overnight, but the opportunity to hone my life. If life does n’t have setbacks and failures, would n’t life seem too monotonous, would n’t you feel bored in such a life? Without the process of growth, what is the difference between such a life and a glass of plain water? What's the point of living a lifetime? I think this kind of life, few people are willing to live it! In my opinion, the failure on the road to growth is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you dare not try and dare not try. , Dare not go to experience. If you always put yourself in a thermos, you will always be a coward in life. That way you lose not just yourself, but the people around you, as well as some opportunities you can't meet but you can't ask for them. If you dare not try the difficulties in your life, then you can never understand the excitement and feelings after the difficulties. Failure is not necessarily tragic, as sometimes success is not necessarily happy.
There is nothing absolute in this world, only relative. If in the beginning, the king of Yue was Shen Lun because of a failure, how could there be a grand feat of reckless taste today? If Wen Tianxiang was not struck by layers, how could there be: 'Who hasn't died since ancient times, he will take a picture of his heart. Sweating. 'How about such eternal pride? If Ouyang Xiu wasn't tired of swindling in the official world, how could there be:' The meaning of the drunk man is not wine, but also the landscape. 'What a beautiful phrase like this? If Tao Yuanming wasn't thinking about being hit in the officialdom, how could there be:' Under the fence of Caiju, see Nanshan leisurely. 'What about such a pastoral beauty? For example, these pioneers, they have failed before, what can it show? Maybe they have feared, what can they represent? All these experiences, after their success, It has long been a cloud, and they have finally overcome the difficulties.
In this age of increasing pressure, it is more important for people to be able to bear, not to switch between failure and success. If you are talented in the world, but your tolerance is very poor, even if you are talented, you will eventually become mediocre. Conversely, if you have a strong mental capacity, even if you are mediocre, you will not be struck by life. People are living in a mood, and if you are in a good mood, you will survive even the most difficult things. If you frown all day, even a small matter will make you feel miserable. If your mood is hazy, then you are at the bottom of the valley of joy, and you will not feel a trace of happiness. If your mood is sunny, you will be happy even under the rock. In fact, think about life, there is nothing terrible. Even if life is hard, we do n’t all live day by day. It will not speed up because of your bad mood, and it will not be because of your good mood. And slow it down. Time will not bother you if you are high or unhappy. It will make you walk slowly and steadily. Instead of trying to achieve success, we might as well calm down and enjoy every failure, so that we will not always blame the world. You may also find that happiness has always been there, but it has been ignored by you.
Our life is always changing, and the meaning of slow success has also been misunderstood. Many people use money to measure whether a person is successful or not. This concept of slowness is deeply rooted in our minds, so many people After the money, he did everything he could. As time goes by, most people slowly lose themselves in life, too many people are lost in the search for money, thus losing many opportunities to meet Bole. When you do nothing for money, you will find that there is only money in your world. You decorate an illusory kingdom with money for yourself. Maybe you will be beautiful, but every night when you are quiet, that is you. The most painful time. By that time, all you have is your money. I'm not saying that money is bad, but you have to live only for money, then money may be a pain to you. Personally, I believe that money may not be the only purpose for people of our time, but relatively speaking, it is the ultimate purpose to find a place that can reflect their value.
In fact, success is very simple. It can be very small. It can be as small as cooking a meal for the family, or watching a movie with a lover, eating a meal with parents, talking with friends about the past, and thinking about the future. Many things like this can be called success. From these small things, you will find yourself growing slowly. With more time to work, there will be less complaints. Success doesn't have to be personal, it can be a group or a company. In short, as long as you feel that you have value, it is success. Success is not something others can give, it is hard work alone. It is only a tragedy to give success, only the ending, but no process experience. What value does a blank piece of paper have, it will always be worthless without going through the grinds and grinds of others.
Maybe now I'm just an angry youth, but I believe that with the help and guidance of my colleagues in the company, I will definitely become better. I hope that in the future work, I can have more experience. In my age, maybe everything is lacking, but there is no shortage of hard work and hard work. I don't know what kind of person I will become and what kind of future I will have in my future life. A lot of question marks like this appeared in my mind, but I believe that in the future work, these confusions will eventually disappear. I believe that through my efforts, I will find my value in the company and also find my future. Sometimes obedience does not mean anything, but rebellion means escape.