There will always be some people around, always open their mouths and complain, in fact, life may be agonizing, but it is by no means so miserable. I think that people who like to complain about life are usually soft persimmons, but they ca n’t hit the mountain of life, so they stop to complain to other persimmons. How can there be so many opportunities to complain in life, I really feel that when you talk, others are attentive Listen? Wake up! How many people are listening to your story in their hearts, don't think your story is a tragedy without laughter!
I usually open some video websites. The first thing I see is not a certain woman walking away, or a certain woman playing WeChat and being corpse broken, or late at night chatting with QQ and being raped by many men. Think about it. When you saw this information, You may lament the impermanence of life, but as time goes by, you will only treat it as a joke. It has nothing to do with your own humanity. No one will give love forever indefinitely. Cong Fei can? Lei Feng can? Who else Yes? How much love did they pay? But what did they gain? Laughed? With their lifetime poverty and hardship, they proved that love is an unequal transaction!
How many people will repeat the same mistakes. Do you dare to help a fallen old man on the street, or dare to rescue a beautiful girl trapped in the hand of the devil in the car? Maybe you will always be a bystander The people watching this world will always be the majority, and I belong to this category. I have no courage to make an alarm call. I have the blood in a cavity, but I have no courage to stop, but I do n’t think this is cowardly. This kind of common sense is by no means cowardly. We are bothered by common sense. We instinctively learn to protect ourselves. We refuse to open our hearts to others. We are afraid of being hurt.
How many people choose to talk to others when they are hurt? When the wife returned home late at night, she accidentally found a gangster. The gangster had a rape case with the wife for up to three seconds in the dark. Then this Should the wife talk?
Who should she talk to? To her husband? Then the result will only lead her to leave! To the law? The law is fair, but it will make the whole city know, but is it all? ? From then on, let the gangster escape free? Maybe this is the sadness of human nature. We cannot objectively comment on the right and wrong of the wife. She does not choose to talk about her pain. This is just her choice. We have no right to interfere! Who should she talk to?
Her husband had been drinking for a long time and was not good for her, but she had a flesh with her husband and could not bear to be separated. From then on, her husband's good or bad will not be with her. If it is a divorce, the child will only Awarded to her, this year, and what other man would want a woman with a cub? Let her husband who has been drinking a long time know that he will surely be beaten for a while, and he will be glared.
Tell the police? The police are trying dozens of criminal cases every day, they are so busy, and they are dealing with your sensitive case. What kind of mentality do you think of you? You go home late at night? (This is your fault first, even if you are When you meet a gangster, why do n’t you resist resolutely? Why do n’t you use an ancient woman to bite your tongue to commit suicide? And when the police record a confession, you need to describe the case in detail. Although it is a confession, it is really painful Talk, most people will keep silent!
Therefore, when faced with unfair treatment, most of the people will shut their mouths and bite their molars severely, and the weaker will only go to social networking sites, talk, and post. How useful is this? A creature that exists for the sympathy of others, or do you like the kind of pity and contempt that others see when you look at you? Most people, when you look at a stray dog, what is the state of mind? Generally, first think that this dog is miserable, and I live better than him, so I am qualified to pity him, and then to adopt.
Yes, human nature is dark when it is truly illuminated by the sun. After all, human nature is selfish, and the person loves himself is always the same. Do n’t worry about how much he loves you now, as long as you do n’t belong He, he will put all the photos and videos on his mobile phone on the Internet, belonging to his part, he will use the mosaic, and you, will always belong to the naked party, once human nature is exposed to hatred, then Becoming no longer warm, like a word, dogs are always dogs, and sometimes people are not people.
When you feel wronged and talk to your parents, your parents will only tell you indifferently, do n’t come to them, it ’s your fault! Yes, most of the exchanges are just a sneer, or a bit of indifference In the head, no one is your true confidant. Don't think that your friends will cry and cry with you. That's impossible! Because things only happen to you, others can never feel your feelings.
When you shed tears and understand thoroughly, life and friends, loved ones, lovers, you really understand that you should never give too many expectations to others, because others are unreliable, and never put too much love into To others, because love is a very fragile thing. Sometimes, in one sentence, one eye can collapse all emotions, and you gradually learn what it means to be silent! People who understand you talk too much, and for those who do n’t understand you, even if you talk a thousand words, the other person will only shrug indifferently, they will never understand why you are so sad, they will not understand you It ’s because of a snowfall. That year, the boy who walked with you and walked away with a vow. They wo n’t know that you are because of a rain. Whenever it rains, he always They thoughtfully tilted the umbrella to your side and wet their shoulders. They wouldn't even think that when you saw soy milk, you would remember that there was once a person who put soy milk in his clothes on a snowy day and burned his belly. little boy .
Too much talk can only make people look bored. Too many complaints can only make you disgusted. Everyone knows that life is a cruel journey. Everyone understands that life is not easy, but there is no need to always complain about walking. It will make you lack a companion around you. Only when you are thinking about the other person directly, you will feel that the other person is also in distress. When you want to complain, you must think about it, he or she Whether your life is happy, will he or she affect your mood because of a word you complain about?
Only by reasonably looking for the person to talk to and choosing the right timing will the harm of talking be minimized. Otherwise, blind complaining will only make your mess even more messy!