May you have,
Enough happiness to keep you sweet,
Enough trials to keep you strong,
Enough sorrows to keep you humane,
Enough hope to keep you happy,
Enough failure to keep you humble,
Enough success to keep you eager,
Enough friends to keep you comfort,
Enough wealth to meet your needs,
Enough enthusiasm to look forward,
Enough faith to banish depression,
Enough determination to make each day better than yesterday.
I like this little poem very much, so share it today with the people who saw it, I hope you have enough, what you think you deserve, beautiful, or not beautiful.
In fact, my understanding of psychology is so shallow that I only know the words "psychology". However, one person should do something for a reason, so if you have to give an explanation to this matter, you can only say that it is because of a single thought.
However, what kind of thought is it, or the memory is not clear, or the description is inexplicable, or it is difficult to speak, or is it difficult to say? I do not know. Maybe it is just to solve these problems or to start this thing.
I want to say that, once, I like to dream.
Later, I knew that Fromm said that dreams are all meaningful. When we are awake, although we are active, we can set goals, formulate plans, and take action, but on the other hand, due to various realistic considerations And interference, we often unknowingly live in lies and illusions, live in mutual suspicion and hatred, but our correct judgment and love emotions are suppressed. Therefore, in the state of awakening, although we are awake, from another perspective, we are confused. In the state of sleep, we are free, no longer disturbed by various lies, and no longer driven by actual interests, so it is possible to make more accurate judgments. In other words, we may be more intelligent and awake when we are dreaming than when we are awake. I deeply understand this and I am very impressed. The first episode of the TV series "Large Songti's Prisoner" shows the hero's amazing thinking and analysis in his dreams.
However, I am a person who rarely sleeps. For me, sleeping five or six hours a day is a common occurrence, and it is also Enough! What's more, the process of going to sleep is relatively long. If you sleep less, naturally you will have less time for dreaming. Later, you rarely dream. Is it because he is at a loss, or does he live freely? I do not know. I do n’t know many things. If I have to study the reasons, I think I can only analyze them in my dreams ...
Actually, I'm scared. Why can't I dream, and even if I dream, I wake up thinking of all the things I have to face today, and I can't remember or don't want to remember. But dreams make sense! In this way, I am extremely tangled, and I seem to have lost a lot of meaningful things ...
Later, I figured it out. Dreams are not everything in my life. In life, there may be some interesting dreams, unforgettable dreams, and bizarre dreams, as Fromm said: "Dream is another sense of soberness. When you fall asleep, you wake up." And I would rather treat them as thoughts in my life. Some thoughts, hurried past, some thoughts, thunderous and powerful. I am willing to load those thoughts into memory forever, without analysis or judgment, just as he is a thought. One thought ...
Well, this thought must not need any definition, because the definition in my mind is not necessarily the definition in your mind, and why do you have to know how I define it ...
And the process of this definition must be beauty in it ...
I am willing to give you this beauty without any definition ...