Schools have begun to take holidays one after another, and a tense semester is over. Looking at the children like a bird out of the cage, the elation, the ease of writing on the face, I can't help thinking, how many children will there be in such a day? How many days, hours, or minutes? ? It is necessary to invest in various tuition classes, specialty classes.
At the end of a semester, many parents will ask their children "how many points have been taken", "how many in the class", "how many in the school", but no one has ever asked their children "are you tired in this half year?" , "Children, you worked hard", "Holiday break." No one asks this, they are concerned about the child's performance, how much the child has taken to make her proud.
Looking at tired children, looking at children who usually sleep in class, and looking at children who even trot or hold books in the bathroom, I do n’t know what parents think: Maybe they will rejoice, their own Children are sensible and learn; maybe they will still be dissatisfied and say that their children are not up to 120,000. But you don't think about it, the children are growing up, they also need to have enough rest time; if you think about it, they also need to have their own time and space.
It ’s said that the poor parents ’hearts are always in your mouth! What do you always do about what you do? What do you and I do for you? But think about it in other words: children, they also have their own outlook on life. Give them enough freedom on the basis of guidance. I remember when I was a kid, I often heard that giving a bowl of rice is worse than giving her the ability to make money. Similarly, if you give your child more advantages, if he doesn't like it, and if his childhood is unhappy, does this still make sense?
I often remember when I was a kid, I went home from school every day to complete my homework, and the rest of the time belonged to us, or in groups of three or two, to play hide-and-seek ... until today in memories Makes me extremely happy. Let ’s take a look at the current children. After school, they rushed home after dinner, and some even did n’t have time to go home for dinner. They rushed to tuition classes in groups of three or five. Are they not tired? Moms and dads have good intentions, and use this special love to create pressure on their children, and erase happiness in their lives!
Look at the newspapers, news, and occasional students running away from home or doing unexpected things. These have an inseparable relationship with their stress and family education. To love a child is not to give him much material, a good boy may not give you good results! It is to let them understand love, love, and love. A childhood without joy will make life dark, the mindset determines the future, how can a dark life determine the future!
A score does not represent a person's ability, nor does a grade represent a child's excellence. In order for children to have a healthy heart, it is necessary to respect him as well as himself, and not to let learning to wipe out their innocence and happiness early.
It ’s better to read thousands of books than to travel thousands of miles! Taking the children out for a walk during the holidays, and looking at the outside world, this is also a kind of learning, a learning not found in books. I remember someone saying: Life is a walk. Only when you experience ups and downs can you grow up and mature. Only when you really understand the importance of learning can he truly learn knowledge.
I remember when I was a kid, I was a bit tired if I kept learning, I was absent there, and I played with this, as long as the parent or teacher said: You can go out and play if you write these words, I will use less than usual A lot of time to complete. Why is this? Because the next time belongs to me, parents may wish to give it a try. Today's children are different in doing this and still in that way, so they have no enthusiasm no matter what they do, and then they can find the fish in muddy water and rely on time.
Children also need to rest, and children also have holidays. Please return the holidays to the children! No regrets for their childhood!