Glorious, ruddy, like to walk around, nosy-this is my old dad who has passed the age of distress; trembling, with a majestic face, talking loudly, and doing things resolutely-this is my old age mom.
Sometimes, I think, if the protagonist of this family changes position, letting my dad be our mother, and letting our mom be our dad may be the best match.
My dad, when he gets old, becomes a very stingy person. He was very restrained and loved money. Perhaps he was scared in his life. Now, in his later years, he has an obsession with money that is similar to a miser. But when he was young, he was an idol in the hearts of our sisters: handsome and refreshing, stylishly dressed, generous and generous with money, hobbies, and hoaxes. In my mother's words: "It's a typical playboy."
Mom, that kind of woman is very angry. Her motto in life is: When the sky falls, someone will always stand on it, and there will always be a way to go to the mountain. Therefore, in the minds of our brothers and sisters, when we encounter difficulties, as long as we face the majestic face of our mother, our hearts are in place.
She was a high school graduate in the mid-1950s. When he was 17 years old, his grandfather, who had been influenced by new ideas and had been the chairman of the peasant association, was sent to the Luo Family Ancestral Hall, which is twenty miles away from his home. It is said that as soon as he entered the school, because he was too old, he went directly to the primary and secondary classes without entering primary school. My mother's academic performance is very good, she is an idol in the minds of male students.
When she was still in high school, her mother was introduced by her classmate and also the mayor's wife at that time, the correspondent who knew the mayor—that is, my dad. During the contact, the two gradually established a love relationship.
My mother graduated from elementary school, her grandfather is old, and she cannot afford to pay for her junior high school. At this time, my mother's boyfriend—that is, my father—said: "I can afford to study, but there must be a condition that we marry first and you go to junior high school." Mom was afraid of being When I was pregnant while studying, I strongly disagreed with my dad's request. Later, whenever I recalled this past, my mother said to her dad "hate the bones": "When you think about it, how embarrassed a big girl is while holding a big belly while studying. Your dad anyway I'm thick-skinned, I can't afford to lose this face. Who knew that for many years of marriage, she hadn't become pregnant. I knew that, so I promised that thick-skinned request. Hey! It's destined! "
At this time, my dad would be proud to say, "If you don't get married first and let you study, then you will go to college in the future and fly a phoenix out of the mountain nest. Will you still recognize me as a native sparrow? I won't do it The meat bun hits the dog. Hey! "My mother gave her a stern glance at her:" Hum! Let me keep your eyes on! The enemy of the past life. "The mother always looked stunned.
Whether they are a pair of enemies, they know very well. But in my memory, I have seen their closest and most loving moments. At that time, my dad was working in the county seat. He went home once a month. When he returned home, it was the happiest time in this poor family. We can eat the long-awaited fried poached egg, which was prepared by my mother for my dad; we can go to the neighboring village to watch the open-air movie without any worries, and my dad will readily approve and promise to guard the house.
However, as we grew older, we found a shadow over our home. Suddenly, my mother was a lot older, and my dad's face didn't have his signature smile. We witnessed their quarrel and suffocation. It was an unbearable day. Later, after graduating from college, I used to ask my mother stupidly: "You had such a quarrel at first, why didn't you choose to divorce?"
"Daughter, have you thought about it, if I choose to divorce, what will you do? Can I support you all to college by myself?" I said dumbly. My so-called modern thoughts and ideas could not solve the problems of my mother's children at the time.
Thank you my mom and dad for giving us a complete home, and thank my mom and dad for giving us a complete love. Because of their mutual tolerance and humiliation, we were able to complete our studies, and because of their tolerance and understanding of each other, we have a happy life today.
My mother may not be the gentlest wife, but the richest mother, a strong and determined woman. Her words and actions affect every child of her; my father may not be the most competent The husband, however, is the most kind father. He is a cheerful and open-minded man. His character infects each of his children. It is gratifying that my father and mother seven children have now settled down, their families are harmonious, and everyone is happy.
Fifty years of love, love, love, and quarrel, we have witnessed their sweetness and happiness, and we have also witnessed their contradictions and quarrels. If it is a golden wedding, it should not be very pure; but not all loving couples are Qinther and Ming, and not all happy marriages are calm. When you encounter setbacks in life, the power of love can be overcome; when you encounter storms and waves in marriage, a tolerant mood can resist.
Nowadays, my dad and mom are always ridiculing each other, but what we hear is the tenderness in cursing and beating, and the happiness in each other.
As children, the revelation we can get from the 50 years of marriage of our parents is: because of love, so love; know how to cherish, learn to be tolerant, and then truly keep happiness.